Mother or Wife- Who comes first?


Many others believe it’s your mother, who gave birth to you and has access to paradise. The fact, however, is that both have equal rights.

Mother or Wife- Who comes first?

Mother’s status in Islam

Giving birth to a child presents a woman with several hurdles. She not only cares for her kid in her womb for nine months, but she also is responsible for the child’s upbringing. It’s true that a pregnant mother’s body can destroy her bones in order to feed the child in her womb.

This does not imply that you must be always on your feet in order to assist your mother. The larger lesson, though, is that if someone wants to know where Jannah is, they should walk to their mother’s feet. Every Muslim brother and sister must honour their mothers, obey them, and pray for them in both realms.

Wife’s status in Islam

“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women…” [Surah An-Nisa: 34].

She has financial control over her husband, and he is expected to provide her with whatever she requires to live comfortably. In a socially acceptable manner, the husband is accountable for caring for his wife’s necessities at home and financially supporting her.

Prophet (صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ) said,

“The believer who shows the most perfect faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are who are the best to their wives.” 

Your Spouse means everything to you! From helping you and raising

your children to teaching them, managing your house, and staying by your side throughout your life.

  Allah says ;

“They(spouses) are Clothing for you and you are clothing for them”

A decent spouse would constantly try to keep her husband on the right path, make Dua for him, and wish to spend Jannah with him.

Mother or Wife- Who comes first?

After all, half of the deen is the wife!

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